After the long debate about Supernanny's behavioral methods and the damage that, I am convinced, they produce to the children when they are instilled norms not to assume them necessary, but by means of the incentive of the prize or the punishment of the deprivation of attention, I have realized a very clear thing and that is undoubtedly at the base of the extreme behavior problems that are shown. Parents have a criterion problem that has produced such disorientation in children who have ended up exploding.
Since it is not a question of methods, it is of pure paternal criteria. Who happens to take a child to a "reality"? I do not say to a television program, to a cultural or sporting contest, to appear explaining something positive or special about his life ... I mean the idea of exposing the child at its worst in a "reality", putting a stranger in home and above, rely on the educational criteria of a television show.
The problem that is revealed in the same incomprehensible decision to take their young children to a "reality" to solve family conflicts, exposing the toughest moments of the child's privacy to distract from the audience and trusting, instead of a serious professional, in the producers of a television show.
The same UN warned, at the time, that this program undermined the dignity of children and watching the scenes of the child Supernanny "teaches" to sleep I have to give the reason to the UN.
And I say clearly that those parents have no criteria, in addition to being evident in all the chapters that I have seen since yesterday, and there have been at least eight, added to those that I suffered in previous seasons stunned, that they lack basic parental skills such as communication, understanding of children's emotional needs, empathy and consistency in the rules of coexistence. They need help, but clearly not the one offered by a reality show that shows their miseries, but from someone who helps them find a healthy and respectful base for their families.
In these times "reality" of anything is made. Dogs, poorly dressed people, women who don't like each other, shady restaurants, famos on an island ... but Would you think of taking your own little son to a reallity?
If your child has a problem, you take him to the pediatrician, a psychologist, a parenting specialist, a pedagogue, but To a reallity?. I do not explain it, really. When I needed a medical or psychological consultation, I had sought a serious specialist, I would never have gone to expose our problems to television, nor would I trust a show to give me an answer.
Well yes, I'm not surprised that these children have problems telling that their parents, to solve them, take them to a "reality" to record them crying and screaming in front of all Spain.
¿Some of you would take your young children to a reality program To give you solutions to a serious problem about children and family and above, would you trust the advice of the drivers of a television show? I hope I'm not the only "weirdo" who doesn't conceive that idea.
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