Something that people do not tell you before becoming a mother is like, from the moment you give the news of pregnancy, everyone's opinions are present. From well-intentioned advice to negative comments, Being a mother sometimes means having to endure criticism and judgments even from people we don't even know.
Therefore the powerful and positive message of a mother defending mothers has gone viral, and many expect it to help end the trials once and for all.
Unfortunately in these times where we all use social networks it is much easier to cast an unsolicited opinion. Sure if you are a mother, have you ever been criticized for caring for your children in one way or another. Now, the message of a mother who has been shared on the Facebook page of Love what matters has gone viral, since regardless of your parenting style, In the end you are a good mom.
The text was written by Ashle Potter and invites to eliminate all the judgments that are usually said about mothers:
Advertising- For the breastfeeding mother: Well done! It is really a wonderful gift that you give your baby, for any amount of time you can do it. You are a good mom.
- For the mother who gives formula: Isn't science wonderful? To think that there was a time when a baby with a mother who could not produce enough milk had to suffer, but now? You have a better life through chemistry! You are a good mom.
- For the mother who wears cloth diapers: The padded bottoms are the cutest, and very friendly to your economy. You are a good mom.
- For the mother who uses disposable diapers: Wow, those diapers retain a lot, and are excellent for not worrying about leaks and washing clothes. You are a good mom.
- For the mother who stays at home: I can imagine that what you do is not easy, but spending those precious years with your child should be wonderful. You are a good mom.
- For the mother who works away from home: It is wonderful that you continue with your career, you are a role model for your children in many ways, it is fantastic. You are a good mom.
- For the mother who had to give her children fast food all week because you were too exhausted to cook or shop: You are feeding your children, and I bet they don't complain! Sometimes healing can be found in a paper bag with a chicken drawn on it. You are a good mom.
- For the mother who cooked her children breakfast, lunch and dinner all last week: Excellent! Good nutrition is important, and they are learning to enjoy healthy food from an early age. You are a good mom.
- For the mother who has children who sit quietly and behave perfectly in an elegant restaurant: Congratulations, it takes a lot of work to keep order with children in a place where they can't be running. You are a good mom.
- For the mother with the little boy who is doing a tantrum in the cereal aisle: They seem to always choose the most embarrassing places to lose their composure, right? We have all gone through that. You are a good mom.
- And for mothers who judge other mothers for any of the reasons I have mentioned. Glass houses, friend, glass houses. *
Ashle's message has been shared more than 18,000 times and has more than 39,000 likes. further He has received hundreds of comments from other mothers applauding his way of thinking and even some have added other points, such as the issue of having a birth or caesarean section.
I personally love the message. I think that when we are mothers we face many challenges and sometimes difficulties that we could not foresee. That is why it is important that although sometimes things do not go as planned, we must remember that we are doing our best and not feeling bad mothers if for some reason we cannot do what others think or recommend.
