Every child is different.. We are also different each of us, his parents. That is why generalizations are not possible in the field, so broad, of human behavior.
Temperament
In the temper Many biological aspects influence each person, which are considered of a genetic nature, such as the functioning of the nervous system and its hormones.
In addition, of course, the experiences and the environment will also influence the way we act in the circumstances, giving rise to the infinite variety of people, with different personality and character.
Even in babies we can identify different features from an early age. In some cases we can blame them at their birth, and especially at traumatic moments that may have lived in those early days, in an anguished birth or with situations that violate nature or in the separation of the mother.
But not only is that, also our way of treating them, adapting the care to their general and specific needs, can make their stress greater or lesser.
However, and apart from all this, it is indisputable that all children are different.
There are calm, placid, who are content with everything we propose, who sleep relaxed and who hardly cry. Others will be more active, they will be smiling, inquisitive, researchers, smiling. Others will get angry more easily, overflowing with their demands and mood swings.
Just as some of us are more expansive, talkative, capricious, empathic, with a tendency to anger, shy, reserved, dreamers ... so will our children and part of our work as parents is to recognize and respect their particular characteristics, guiding them to learn To live in society and pleasant relationship with others, but always with respect and affection.
Behavioral changes
The environment will powerfully influence the formation of each child's character, but based on their temperament. As it grows it will will face enormous challenges and changes, the most important of his life.
Communicate, talk, move autonomously, discover food, are those first milestones in development that can modify a general behavior and will do so in a positive way if they are accompanied by their generous, patient and dedicated parents.
Perhaps the hardest moment for the little boy is the discovery of the self. That is, that he is a person independent of his mother, someone with the ability to decide. And it's scary, very scary. On the one hand they want to make decisions, sometimes without understanding what it is. They have discovered the power of "no."
And with the "no" begins a disconcerting stage. That kind and accommodating child has tantrums. Nothing seems right. He wants to eat but nothing he likes. He wants to go play but he doesn't want you to separate but he wants you to separate. Come on, he doesn't know what he wants because he is discovering the ability to want something for himself.
When we have been more able to let him decide according to his needs when he was a baby more bearable is this stage. But many factors influence, some external such as our own family organization, fatigue, worries, help we receive.
Our character also influences and if we are impatient or easily angry people, it will be more complicated for them to connect with us and that we understand that they are almost going crazy with uncertainty, emotion, fear and joy when opening up to the experience of building their personality and Your ability to say yes or no to things.
All children are different.
Advice, always patience, rest, help and training in parental skills and natural evolution of child psychology.
We will continue talking about temperaments and external circumstances that also influence the behavior of our children. And is that Every child and every family is different, but we all need acceptance, empathy, respect and love.
