It seems simple that of fertilization. A lonely sperm reaches a huge egg after a dangerous journey, the theory is clear and we all know it, more or less. We know where the ovule is and how they have to reach the sperm, it is simple and above all, very pleasant.
But, in this cycle of life there can always be buts, things can get complicated and that expected fertilization may take a little longer than expected to arrive. So far nothing from the other world, they are things that happen and not everyone finds the magic moment when we want it, it doesn't matter, that moment will come when we see the double signal that tells us that in about nine months we will be one more. Of course not all of us have these waiting moments in the same way and we can start to get nervous and obsess with the arrival of that moment, here we have ten signs that tell us that we are obsessed with getting pregnant
Your baseline temperature graph has more measurement points than the performance curve of a Formula One engine
You have such a control of the basal temperature that you could probably tell the exact coordinates in which your ovule is at each moment.
There is nothing, absolutely nothing more important than maintaining relationships the day you ovulate
You are ovulating and it doesn't matter if your partner is more than 2000 kilometers away, you have to do it yes or yes. If you have a visit, he says goodbye, the TV does not turn on, eating is optional and only if it does not interfere in the process, if something hurts there are analgesics for it, if we can not with our soul we seek forces from anywhere, etc. If you are living one of these situations you better relax because You are obsessing.
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You have reached a point where you do not trust anything or anyone, so it does not matter that the basal temperature is close to the freezing point or that the machine that warns you of the red and green days is celebrating the day of Saint Patrick, you are going to do it "just in case the flies".
At the end you start practicing strange postures so that "it" goes down
Instead of hugging you, sleeping or showering you put your hip above your head, even to do the pine. It is something normal that many couples do and that is supposed to help take the semen further inwards, the problem is when your partner has to lift your feet from the lamp or start weighing sleep like bats.
You are willing to do anything to keep your partner's libido
You begin to notice the monotony and situations that a few months ago would not have occurred to you to do, they begin to take a shape too defined in your head. It never hurts to try new things or let the imagination fly, but if you see strange expressions in your partner, it may be time to relax and leave it for a while.
You have had the pregnancy test two hours after you have finished having sex
Shouldn't you let nature take its course?
You get a minimum of one pregnancy test a day
You have become addicted to pregnancy tests. Your trash bin overflows with boxes of them and you no longer need or ask at the pharmacy, as you enter the pharmacy takes half a dozen boxes and makes you a wholesale price.
Are you sure you have a fertility problem after two months trying
Something happens, this is not normal, surely one of the two is sterile. Your friends stayed right away and your mother says she got pregnant on the wedding night ... Throughout the house there are brochures of fertility clinics that of course, are only by emergency. Yes, you are obsessing.
The subject begins to be a subject of discussion among you
The accusations fly from one to another and you both feel locked in a spiral that leads nowhere. You feel that it has gotten out of hand and you begin to see it as an obligation, as a job. You accuse your partner of not doing anything, of not really wanting to be a father or mother. And I assure you that this is going to get worse if you do not put a brake on it, recapitulate and stay again with the basics, with yourself. Relax again and let everything flow again.
In your closest environment the subject is taboo
At home, every time the word pregnancy comes on TV someone changes the channel, your sister asks you fifteen times if you really want to stay with the children in the park and if by chance someone escapes asking how is the thing going? A couple of elbows and several kicks in the shin make him give up and continue as an unforgettable memory for the next time.
