Since I was a mother, I have had many new lessons and lessons that are only lived until you have children. Also, I have thought a lot about some things in life that I used to not give much importance to or did not pay particular attention to.
When I write, research and share about motherhood, most of the time I do it thinking of myself as "the mother." But today I want to dedicate a few words of thanks to another mother: mine (and that of those who read this article). Why Although we have our own children, the truth is that we will always continue to need our mother.
I understand now, mom
When I was younger and not yet becoming a mother, I definitely had no idea what it was that was to come, much less knew that I could experience so many feelings and sensations that I had never lived before. But They say it well: you will understand when you have children.
In Babies and more I am not, nor do I want to be the same as before having children And yes, now that I'm mom and I'm finally in shoes very similar to those my mother once was, I can understand all those things that at the time I did not know or value. Or I did value them, but not in the same way I do now.
Now I understand that this feeling of love so great that I have and that I was born at the moment I became a mother, she has also felt it and will continue to feel it. In the same way, now I understand, how and why in spite of all that we have lived, both good and bad, she is still by my side. Supporting me, listening to me, loving me. And for that, today I want to say: thank you.
Thanks Mom
Since childhood, you took care of me and took me by the hand. You showed me all the things I should learn and you have loved me unconditionally. You have been with me in every important, positive, negative, sad and happy moment of my whole life. Y I know you will be forever.
I am no longer a girl, nor a teenager. I am an adult woman, who even already has her own daughter. For several years now, you and I have not shared the same roof, I have my responsibilities as an adult and mother, and it can be said that I have already taken my path and made my life. But despite all that, I still need you.
I need my mother, because no matter how old I am or how far the roads that I decide to undertake take me, a daughter will always need her. How not to do it, if a mother is the one who gives us life, warmth, shelter and love during the first decades of our life?
I know we had our difficult stages, in which we were perhaps not so close. We had discussions and differences of the changes that each one was living according to the stage of life in which we were. But in spite of all those changes and all those differences, here we are. Here you are.
Today is the birthday of the woman who gave me life. Mom, I finally understand everything. Thank you for continuing to allow my 32 years to continue taking refuge in your home and your arms when my heart needs it. And thanks for being the grandmother who follows all the crazy things of the granddaughters. You know they love and adore you. Felices 64 #documentingmotherhood #momblogger #mommyblog #honestmotherhood #joyfulmamas #motherhoodsimplified #mytinytribe #cameramama #clickinmoms #momswithcameras #mamafeliz #maternidadreal #madresreales #thehappynow #momlifestyle #happymama #motherhoodinspired #momsthatblog #bloggermama #momblog #instamama #igmotherhood #mamamexicana mamámillennial # # unamamámillennial #grandma #grandmother #grandmotherslove #grandmalove
One would think that I feel adult I no longer "need" my mother. After all, I am already independent, mature and responsible enough to make my own decisions about how to act and how to lead my life. But nevertheless, mom will always be mom.
Already Even though I'm already an adult and I'm a mom, I'm still (and will continue) needing you, mom, either in face-to-face support or as emotional support. Personally, and from what I've seen with other friends my age or a little older, I think all women will still need them.
Whether we are married or single, with children or without children, whether our life turns out or not, she will always be our mother, and we will always be her little daughters to her. And, of course, the same happens in the case of men, but particularly for those of us who become mothers, we finally understand and feel so many things that she herself experienced at some point.
In Babies and more I remember my mother when I was little: a tribute to moms through 11 testimonies of sons and daughtersFor all this and because now I finally understand so many things, even at 32 years old, it is still a pillar in my life, and I know that there will always be a space for me in your home. Whether, near or far, supporting me in person or accompanying me emotionally, she will never stop being a mother.
So thanks mom. Because even after so many years, after so many experiences, so many ups and downs, so many turns in our lives and so many surprises in this adventure called maternity, Your arms remain a refuge for me and your heart continues to give me that love that only a mother can give to her children.
